Tuesday, 24 February 2015

Parent-adolescent relationship, how to help your child to establish his identity




In times of crisis appear Child evolution in which conflicts between parents and children worsens. One of the most critical and decisive period for shaping the future adult personality is the stage of adolescence. The young man in the phase of transition from childhood to adulthood, often face conflicting parental attitudes. Many things that he wants them are forbidden as "too small" and others have to make one for that "is already high."


When relations between parents and children deteriorates, blame is attributed to one or other of the parties, in most cases the adolescent parents expecting some attitudes that were not learned in the family group. During adolescence conflicts of authority is first, but have a different hue. Boy or girl looking not only to state: they seek a statute setting out their rights.


'' I'm sorry, I apologize, '' but do not help now




Sorry for each moment that turned into oblivion, for when I mimicked my presence though I was not really around you. I fantasize about a past and a future ideal in a distant landscape. I slipped on adventures that they see only in dreams. He was innocent. I thought you will not notice. I've underestimated the power of perception.


I apologize for those times when I felt like "I love you"; words appeared in my mind, but I have not spoken. I did not let it be said. When we met I promised you receive each moment and as I was doing heartfelt, but I repressed this vulnerability.